When communicating with someone on the Autism spectrum, we often wonder - is there a better way to communicate that is more respectful, inclusive and understanding. Over the years, we learn to be better communicators and allies, but what if there was a way to learn to bridge this gap sooner rather than later and have someone on the Spectrum guide us. The book, Communicating better with people on the Autism Spectrum written by Paddy-Joe Moran fills that gap and provides us with 35 things that can guide us in the process. Though this book is meant for professionals, I recommend this book for young parents and family members. Creating a positive and inclusive environment at home will help your child flourish and boost his/her self confidence.
Some of these 35 communication guidelines are use of functioning labels and how they do more harm than good; addressing them directly rather than speaking over them; importance of backing your gestures with words; and throughout the various topics, the author repeatedly emphasizes that when in doubt, ask the autistic person their preference and proceed accordingly.
My personal favourite was the topic of using appropriate language when conveying the Autism diagnosis to parents. I totally agree with the author's thought process that Autism diagnosis is neither an entirely negative nor totally positive news, it's rather a beautiful mix of both that most good things in life are! If the focus is only on the negative aspects, the morale of the parents will be severely affected and that will not help the family. Starting off your Autism journey on a neutral note in a nourishing and nurturing home is the biggest gift any parent can give their child!
I hope you found the review helpful, you can purchase the book on Amazon India
